Happy Valentine's Day

Blessings everyone,

Make every day a Valentine's Day! Don't stop with today. Imagine how amazing our lives would be if we continued to honor and love each other in special ways every day. We could have such exciting, warm, fun, surprising lives. This year besides the tibetan bell blessing, I gave Rick the CD program radical self acceptance. What a gift of loving yourself to package up for Valentine's. I get to use it also :)

Today I was reading a book on healing individuals, families and nations that is VERY interesting. It is majorly founded on the principle that Soul incorporates everything and allow nothing to be depressed or lost. We may be able to fool ourselves into thinking we hid something or someone or got rid of it or them but that never happens. The something or someone shows up in another person within the family, group, nation, etc. This all happens on an unconscious level whenever the "Orders of Love" are crossed or violated. "The Order of LOve" describe a natural pattern that there is a distinct order stating who belongs and who does not belong, not only in a family system, but also in larger groups such as nations.

For example, siblings are all aware of each other in a family whether or not they all are born. If there is a miscarriage or abortion the unborn child is still a member of the family. The surviving children often feel an unconscious guilt for having lived. They also may pick up the need to be perfect to make up for the left out child. When people take responsibility to honor and acknowledge the unborn child the family constellation is healed especially the person who took on the unborn child's feelings. It is really pretty amazing work to read about. The book is "The Healing of INdividuals, Families and Nations by John L Payne.

By for now,
Sharon